It seems like we just said goodbye to summer, but now the holidays are quickly approaching and with that comes a good deal of stress.  As a parent of a toddler, you are still dealing with the daily struggles of tantrums, setting boundaries, potty training and the list goes on and on and on.  But now, we’re adding a whole new level of stress….the holidays.  UGH.  There’s gift giving (how do we stay in budget??), dealing with family (where will we spend the holidays?), multiple obligations (who’s having a party??) and we need to squeeze in holiday photos.  This is one of the most exciting times of the year for any parent.  Watching their children experience the holidays is one of the most rewarding moments you get to spend as a parent.  However, it’s equally important that you take care of yourself and your stress during this time.
 
Times are tough.  We’ve all been effected in some way by the ever changing (and not for the better) economy.  Jobs have been lost, pay has been cut and expenses have risen.  As you approach the holidays, make sure to have a plan to help save the post-holiday surprise bills.  Many families are making a point of doing a cash only holiday.  This helps eliminate overspending and tough Januarys.    Having a debt-free holiday takes sacrifice and determination but it can be done.  The payoff is a January free from big holiday credit card bills.
 
Stress is part of every parent’s life, especially life with a rambunctious toddler.  However, the holidays can add much more stress to the equation.  It’s important to find ways to mitigate your stress to make sure you can enjoy this time with your family.  Remember, the holidays are about your faith, family and tradition.  Make sure that’s where your focus is.   Make time for yourself.  Exercise is an important part of managing stress during the holidays; continue your routine.  Focus your attention on what the holidays mean to you and your family.
 
here are lots of great tips for managing stress during the holidays.  I would check out these articles to get more information:  http://www.sideroad.com/Stress/stress-free-holiday-tips.html
 
Remember that holidays are about making memories for you and your family.  Your children will look back fondly on this time and not because of the amount you spent on their gift or how perfect their dress was, but because as a family you enjoyed each other.  Happy Holidays!